And Some To Be Mothers

My 3 year old grandson and his mom just left after a three week visit. It was such a blessing to have them here. I had a great time being the grandma and doing the fun things with him. But, his visit reminded me just how hard it can be to be the mom of young children.

I know that there are times that you feel the only word your child knows is "no", you will never have a converstion that isn't about Thomas the Tank Engine, have five minutes to yourself (even in the bathroom), or have a floor that isn't covered with Legos. I know there are days when you just want to sit and cry or to quit. I know that underneath it all you feel totally inadequate and ill-equipped for the job. I know that society has sent the message that your efforts are not worthwhile, and you should get a "real" job.Most importantly, I know that you are the right woman for this. No one, and I do mean absolutely no one, else ever created could be a better mother for your children.

Don't buy into the lies that Satan is continually feeding you in your exhaustion and exasperation. The Truth is that God chose you to be the mother of your children because you were the only one that could do just what needed to be done to make them into the people He wants them to be. He chose those children to be yours because they were the ones He will use to help sanctify you. He didn't make a mistake. You are not a failure. Wiping another runny nose, picking up soggy Cheerios again, and plowing through the same drudgery day after day are not futile efforts. You are making an invaluable investment in the future.

Your children will grow up knowing that they are loved. They will know that they are worth something because you have shown them that you value them greatly. They will know compassion, mercy, and forgiveness because they have seen them modeled daily. These children will grow up to be blessings to all who know them because of what you have done. Press on in your good works. Bring your cares before the Lord and know that He is watching and is pleased with you.